Three Things That Terrify Me as a Mom and a Single Black Woman in America

Hello and welcome to Permission.

Today, I want to share something deeply personal with you—my fears. I hope that by opening up about my vulnerabilities, you’ll see a reflection of your own experiences and understand how Permission, my coaching program, has helped me navigate these challenges. Here are three things that terrify me as a mom and a single Black woman in America.

1. Being Visible to Promote My Coaching Brand

Starting my coaching practice, Permission, was a dream come true, but it also brought to the surface one of my deepest fears: being visible. The imposter syndrome was a constant companion, especially as a parent coach. During the pandemic, parenting was the hardest for me. We were grappling with the effects of my daughter's undiagnosed ADHD. I thought I had to be perfect first, and I believed she had to be perfect too. The fear of judgment and gossip kept me frozen. I worried about what people would say if they knew about our struggles.

But through the principles of Permission—awareness, ownership, and regulation—I learned to acknowledge and embrace my imperfections. I realized that my experiences, both the struggles and the triumphs, made me a more empathetic and effective coach. By being open about my journey, I can help others see that they are not alone, and that vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.

2. Early Death and Leaving My Teenage Daughter Alone

The thought of an early death and leaving my daughter Parker to navigate the world alone terrifies me. This fear, rather than paralyzing me, motivates me though. It drives me to dive deeper into personal development so I can equip Parker with the tools she needs to survive and thrive on her own.

Through my work with Permission, I have embraced the importance of teaching her resilience, self-awareness, and emotional regulation. These are not just abstract concepts; they are daily practices. Every day, I strive to model these behaviors for Parker, showing her how to face challenges head-on and make empowered choices. The work of personal development is never-ending, but it is the greatest gift I can give her.

3. Anxiety and Depression for Women and Young Girls

Anxiety and depression are pervasive, particularly among women and young girls, and this reality scares me deeply, too. It’s one of the main reasons I do the work I do as a coach. I want women to know they have a choice, that everything they need is within them.

Permission is about more than just individual coaching; it's about fostering a sense of community and connection. I believe in the power of connection as a top value for my life and my coaching brand. I want women to know they don’t have to do it all on their own. Through my coaching, I emphasize the importance of building supportive relationships and networks. We thrive when we connect, share, and support one another.

Conclusion

Sharing these fears with you is not easy, but it's an essential part of my journey. Being a mom and a single Black woman in America comes with unique challenges, but it's through facing these fears head-on that I find my strength. Permission has helped me transform these fears into motivation and action.

If you resonate with my story, know that you are not alone. The journey of self-awareness, ownership, and regulation is ongoing, and I'm here to walk it with you.

Take the Next Step

If you're ready to start your own journey of self-discovery and empowerment, I invite you to join the Permission community. Sign up for my email list for updates and insights, follow me on social media, and explore the coaching services I offer. I have limited spaces available for one-on-one coaching, so if you're interested, sign up for a free introductory sales call by following the link on my website. Together, we can create a life filled with confidence, connection, and fulfillment.

Warm regards,

Cindy Moore Naughton

Master Life Coach